hagman and he said call me larry and what did you guys get. peter who at the time was just two, got a liver transplant and i said i was donor and he said, show me your scar, when he didn't get a reaction, okay, you show me your scar, i said whoa, i hardly know you and this broke the ice and he said to me just make me a promise that when peter is older he's never going to be ashamed or embarrassed by the scar, but see it as a badge of honor and i didn't appreciate how empowering this was and really liberating until we got into that opening ceremony at the transplant games and 10,000 people on cue, when he lifted up his shirt all lifted up their shirts or pulled at waist bands to show each other their scar. it wasn't a stigma having a transplant and he made it something to be proud of and i think that's one of his great legacies, just an a human being. >> in 2008 i think we have some video of your son peter, just a great clip of him running, doing this race and the transplant games, which was fantasticment and we won't ask you to lift your shirt